GRACE + NICK - Breathtaking Ballroom

Grace and Nick's wedding was held in one Melbourne's most charming of venues, The George Ballroom.    Nestled in the heart of St Kilda, the heritage-listed ballroom exudes a timeless charm, capable of transporting guests to a centuries-old European palace the moment they step inside.

With its polished timber floors, ornate ceilings, distressed walls, and well-considered lighting, The George Ballroom is a masterpiece of restoration - a credit to the hard work of Damm Fine Food Co, who also manage the venue. Every detail of the space speaks to its rich history, while also providing a breathtaking backdrop for modern celebrations.

On Grace and Nick’s wedding day, the ballroom's inherent beauty was elevated to new heights, thanks to the creative talents of Wild Flos and Poni Studio. Known for their ability to transform spaces into works of art, the teams curated a ceremony setting that was nothing short of exquisite. Hydrangeas and roses in shades of blue and cream, carefully arranged alongside an abundance of candles, helped to create a serene and romantic atmosphere, while rows of perfectly placed ghost chairs gave a sense of formality.

Capturing every moment of this extraordinary celebration was the talented team from Lost In Love Photography. Their ability to immortalise the elegance and beauty of weddings is nothing short of exceptional.

Grace looked so very elegant in her Sassi Holford gown as she entered the ballroom alongside her proud parents.  While Hey Jack performed Adele’s Make You Feel My Love, her parents lifted her veil, embraced her and then smiled as she took Nick’s arm and walked the remaining steps of the processional.

After carefully arranging Grace’s cathedral-length veil, I took my place alongside her attendants and shared a few light-hearted relationship stories. I also highlighted a few of the personal qualities she and Nick bring to their partnership.

Vows and rings were exchanged and then, to an almighty cheer, the newlyweds sealed their status with a kiss.

Guests saved their congratulations and ventured across the road to LOLA St Kilda for drinks and canapes while the room was reimagined with the same meticulous attention to detail.

Grace and Nick, your wedding was a perfect blend of timeless elegance and modern sophistication, a day where every element came together to create a truly beautiful experience.

Thanks for inviting me into your lives to prepare and present your ceremony… and for the many laughs shared along the way. What a wonderful ride.

LOVE NOTE

“…Sally is such a beautiful, humorous, genuine and captivating celebrant. Sally ensured the entire process from start to finish was seamless, and her communication is second to none.

She has the ability to engage the audience whilst simultaneously putting her couples at ease. The delivery in her ceremonies is unmatched. Sally is beyond what we could have hoped for in a celebrant.”
— Grace + Nick

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer: Lost In Love Photography // Venue: The George Ballroom // Venue Management & Design: Damm Fine Food Co // Floral Design: Wild Flos // Planner & Stylist: Poni Studio // Videographer: Luca Zarik Films // Music: Hey Jack // Grace’s dress: Blue Bell Bridal & Sassi Holford // Nick’s suit: MJ Bale // Make up: Maddi Nichols // Hair: Hair by Caroline // Jewellery: Anton Jewellery

Melbourne's Best Micro Wedding Venues

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Are you planning a small wedding, otherwise known as a micro wedding?  

If you intend to marry before a small number of guests (twenty or fewer) and host a celebratory lunch or dinner in a private setting afterwards, then yes, you’re planning a micro wedding.

Increasingly, couples are looking to marry and celebrate in intimate settings and very often, they look to me to recommend an aesthetically-pleasing venue with private ceremony and dining areas, delicious food, an extensive wine list and excellent service.   Here are my recommendations.

- City -

W Melbourne 

- Inner East -

James Said (Armadale)

- By the Bay -

San Lorenzo - Sala Privata (Scoresby)

- Inner North / North East -

Farm Vigano (South Morang)

- Yarra Valley -

Michael Briggs Photography

Avalon Castle (Cockatoo)

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JULIA + KIT - Midweek Micro

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

When Julia and Kit shared their vision for their wedding with me, it was clear: they wanted a relaxed and joyous gathering where family could come together, enjoy good wine, delicious food, and lots of laughter. Their wish was for a celebration that truly embodied the spirit of Melbourne, and I couldn't have been more excited.

On a sunny Wednesday afternoon in Autumn, Julia and Kit and about twenty of their nearest and dearest gathered at the Melbourne Supper Club to enjoy wine, canapes and lively conversation. About half an hour later, as the final song in their pre-ceremony set played, I invited guests to replenish their glasses and gather near while Julia and Kit took their places before the iconic arched window.

Julia and Kit chose a micro ceremony, preferring not to delve deeply into the story of their relationship. However, they did allow me to share a few significant and amusing moments, which helped create a ceremony that was both personal and interactive, mirroring their easy-going and sociable natures.

What truly stood out during the ceremony was the range of emotions that swept through the intimate gathering. There was an overwhelming sense of happiness, but also deeply moving moments that highlighted the love and connection within this small group.

After heartfelt and humorous vows were exchanged, Julia and Kit’s scene-stealing son kept the laughs rolling with some off-the-cuff commentary and his unique style of ring presentation.

Julia and Kit were keen to include a further three children in their ceremony. When we discussed their ages and comfort levels I suggested that they be the ones to declare them married. I was confident that it would add a sweet and memorable touch to the proceedings.

Though I was ready to step in if needed, I knew after my pre-ceremony pep-talk that they’d nail it. They did.

After one of the funniest certificate signing sessions I’ve ever known (awesome banter Leanne and Leigh!), I closed the ceremony with a toast to the newlyweds.

As their guests refilled their champagne glasses (their celebrant included), Julia and Kit took to the streets of Melbourne for a photo session with the talented Julieanne Perara. They later rejoined their adult guests for a long lunch, their favourite pastime, bringing a perfect end to a perfect day.

Reflecting on Julia and Kit's wedding, I'm reminded of why I love being a celebrant. Their day was a beautiful blend of love, laughter, and genuine connection—a true celebration of family and togetherness in the heart of Melbourne.

Congratulations Julia and Kit. What a joyous and heartfelt celebration that was. Thank you for placing your trust in me to prepare and present your ceremony. I thoroughly enjoyed my time with you and your lovely family. xx

LOVE NOTE

“Sally is an exceptional Celebrant. She is engaging, funny, warm and thoroughly organised. She made sure that all the admin happened seamlessly in the background which took a lot of pressure off us and was greatly appreciated. ⁠⁠

Where her real value lies, though, is in the personal touch she offers and the ways she helped us plan and run our ceremony. She has a wealth of information available that helped us with our vows, and the order of ceremony - as well as great recommendations for photographers, florists and other service providers which we used. ⁠⁠She also helped with practical, logistical things such as furniture placement, where to stand and how to best put on our rings to ensure the best photos, patiently coaching the kids involved in our ceremony on their roles and lines… it really felt like she went way above and beyond expectations to ensure the day went exactly as we wanted it to. ⁠⁠

She then delivered the most heartwarming, humorous and fun ceremony we could have hoped for. She was warm without being cheesy, funny without stealing the show, flexible and adaptable and a lot of fun. She even went so far as to dress so as to match our autumnal theme.

⁠⁠We feel very lucky to have found Sally and don’t think there’s anyone who could have done a better job of making our day so perfect. ⁠⁠Thank you Sally, we are forever grateful.”
— Julia & Kit

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer: Julieanne Perara Photography // Venue: Melbourne Supper Club, Managed by Spring Street Events // Julia’s Outfit: Scanlan Theodore // Julia’s bag: Kit’s Suit: Calibre // Flowers: The Road Stall

ASH + VINNIE - Party Vibes and Laughter

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

It was just a typical Saturday in 2014 when eighteen-year-old Ash finished her shift at Max’s Burger Bar in Montmorency and made her way to the Perseverance Hotel in Fitzroy.

Vinnie, then twenty-one and at his physical peak, had spent the day playing for the Fitzroy thirds, accruing thirty and three from the car park…. (I didn’t fact-check that statement). He too, made his way to the Persa, unaware that life as he had known it was about to change forever.

And that’s because upon arriving, he was introduced to Ash and her bestie.  Within minutes, he bought them a round of vodka raspberries… the first of four… and did his best to impress. Whether it was his killer smile or his chocolate and red wine-stained shirt, Ash can’t be sure, but Vinnie did make a strong first impression.  

An exchange of witty repartee ensued, as did a stint on the dancefloor (whereupon Ash exhibited a dance style that can be best described as “breaking through a pack”) and then, to the highly sentimental soundtrack that is Mr Brightside, they shared their first kiss.   When their evening came to a close, they parted ways on Brunswick Street with new contacts saved in their respective iPhone 4’s.

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A decade later, Ash and her Vinnie were married on the top floor of The Craft & Co; a light-filled urban industrial brewery, distillery and event space in Collingwood.

Their ceremony brief was enticingly simple; “Party vibes and laughter”, so needless to say, I couldn’t have been more excited to get to work on their script. As one of the most affable couples on the planet, I knew they’d let me push their brief as far as I could. They answered my many questions with playful humour and allowed me to play to the crowd on the day.

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Guests arrived to welcome drinks, DJ Dani Smarrelli playing Ash and Vinnie’s favourite tunes and a particularly excited Celebrant (because Ash is my niece).⁠

The energy in that space was palpable. When I invited Vinnie and his Groomsmen to take their places at the top of the aisle, Vinnie’s cheer squad roared, at which point it was clear to me that the scene for an interactive ceremony had been well and truly set.

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But for all the pre-ceremony excitement that filled the space, it was Ash’s entrance that proved most powerful. She caught us all by surprise when emotion took hold and her eyes welled with tears. The touching moment had many of us reaching for our tissues. It was the first of a few.

As their processional song Simply The Best drew to a close, Vinnie led Ash to stand with their wedding party.

From thereon, we laughed and laughed as I roasted… err… introduced their wedding crew, acknowledged their much-loved parents and shared a little of their relationship story.

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The mood took a sentimental turn as vows were exchanged - though Vinnie did weave a fair few hilarious insights into their relationship into his. They landed VERY well.

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Ring Bearer and North Melbourne AFLW celebrity Kane drew the loudest applause of any Ring Bearer I’ve ever introduced. He was a definite crowd favourite.

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And then they kissed, signed their certificates and allowed their sentimental celebrant to have a moment.

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The newlyweds strutted down the aisle to an almighty cheer, hugged their loved ones and then followed photographer Jerome Cole outside for a stroll along Smith Street.

A nod to the North Melbourne AFLW Football Club in the form of a blue and white Kombi van. Ash is a midfielder and Vinnie, a strength and conditioning manager. Pretty clever, huh?

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While guests were seated in the reception area, Ash and Vinnie spent a private moment rehearsing their first dance.

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Speeches, espresso martinis, love and laughter.

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A quick costume change and then over to the dance floor to entertain the crowd.

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Ash and Vinnie, you fit, funny and altogether fabulous couple!

Thanks so much for inviting me to celebrate your marriage with you and congratulations on cementing the Ash and V-man duo with the likes of Romeo and Juliet, Barbie and Ken and Stuey Dew and grand final third quarters. (See what I did there, Vin?)

“Sal, you’re an amazing celebrant! You went above and beyond to give us the most enjoyable and stress-free experience imaginable.

You were organised from the beginning and very easy to communicate with throughout and we’re so grateful to you for giving us so many wedding tips and supplier recommendations along the way - which saved us so much time and expense.

Your ability to entertain our guests with clever humour and confident delivery and your sensitivity in knowing when to pull back and allow sentimental moments to play out was masterful.

We are so grateful Sal. You’re the best celebrant ever!”
— Ash & Vinnie

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer: Jerome Cole // Flowers: Babylon Flowers // Venue: The Craft & Co Collingwood // Videographer: Kate Newlyn Videography // DJ (ceremony and reception): Logan Entertainment // Ash’s dress: Made With Love Bridal // Suits: P Johnson Tailors // Bridesmaids’ dresses: Bridesmaids Only // Hair and make up: Magical Makeovers // Transport: Kombi Haus

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SUSANNA + JARRAD - Low-Key Love Fest

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Susanna and Jarrad married on a Monday morning among the vines - their tomato vines, that is.

The talented musicians entered their backyard garden from an alleyway (handy that!) as a friend played a movement from a Bach sonata. We waved to family watching via livestream (warning Susanna’s mum that we would call her out if she dared to do any ironing!), and I shared a little of their love story - assuring all present that I wouldn’t conclude with the phrase "and the rest is history” (something Susanna, Jarrad and I had heard far too many times at weddings back in our respective music student days).

The happy couple exchanged vows and rings, cuddled their beautiful baby and treated their guests to champagne and Susanna’s sponge cake. Their celebration was as simple and as wonderful as that!

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Congratulations Susanna and Jarrad and thank you for inviting me into your beautiful home. You hosted such a rich and happy celebration - and you even sent me on my way with a jar of home made jam!

I’m pleased to report that it was as delicious as your sponge cake. xx

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer: Madeline Kate Photography // Susanna’s Jumpsuit: Elly Louise Bridal // Jarrad’s suit: P Johnson Tailors // Susanna’s Hair and Make Up: Make Up by Inez // Flowers: Botanics Melbourne

MEGAN + TODD - Promises Under the Pier

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Like so many couples over the past eleven months, Megan and Todd were forced to reimagine their wedding day. More than once. Government-imposed restrictions on guest numbers, an eleven-week-long ban on weddings in greater Melbourne and a Queensland border closure that prevented Megan from travelling to Melbourne, gave this very patient couple no other choice than to reschedule their ceremony.

As disappointing as that must have been, Megan and Todd hardy let on. Every time we spoke, we’d end up laughing at how hopeless their situation was (and then we’d usually chat about wine). I adored their optimism and their ability accept the cards they’d been dealt. They maintained that as long as they were married, on the beach, with their gorgeous sons present, they’d be fine. They decided to prioritise marriage over the party and I couldn’t have admired them more for it.

And so, we met underneath the Seaford Pier on a warm Summer’s morning in January and I presented their full “bells and whistles” ceremony to six people (because even though their guest list had been drastically reduced, their stories were too good not to share!). We all laughed (a lot!), we cheered and we all absolutely loved being “in the moment” in our secluded spot under the pier that morning.

Congratulations gorgeous Megan and Todd and thank you for inviting my elopement ceremony partner-in-crime, photographer Julieanne Perara, and I to spend such a special morning with you. Your wedding plans did change, but looking back on your ceremony, I can’t imagine it playing out any other way.

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Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer: Julieanne Perara Photography // Megan’s Dress: Datto Bridal Designs // Todd’s clothes: Trent Nathan (Myer) // Megan’s Make Up: Erin Norman // Megan’s Hair: Olivia Norman // Flowers: Poppin’ Poppies // Jewellery: Michael Hill // Children’s Clothing: City Beach

Love Note…

“Do not look any further if you are wanting the best marriage celebrant in Melbourne! From start to finish, Sally had everything covered and made the whole experience and day absolutely amazing. And to say she is thorough is an understatement. Most catch ups were just a barrel of laughs, so was concerned that maybe we might miss something but quite the opposite. She talked us through everything and even a last minute change was not a problem. And she was only too happy to go and buy a new frock to match our colour theme. We can’t thank Sally enough for making the start of our day absolutely perfect!!”
— Megan

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CLEMENTINE + JACK - Storybook Love

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

“Come my love, I'll tell you a tale

Of a boy and girl and their love story

And how he loved her oh, so much

And all the charms she did possess…”  ‘Storybook Love’  (Mark Knophler)

Clementine and Jack were married in Melbourne’s grandiose Mural Hall in a ceremony that celebrated their modern day love story.  Clementine, with her porcelain complexion and balletic poise, wore a beautiful blush tulle Moira Hughes Couture gown with a dramatic cathedral length veil. She immediately reminded me of a ballerina from Giselle or A Midsummer Night’s Dream. Jack complemented her handsomely in his classic black tuxedo.

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The evocative song Storybook Love, from ‘The Princess Bride’, accompanied the procession of six children the day Clementine and Jack wed. The song gently faded and Peter Gabriel’s stirring orchestral arrangement of the Bowie / Eno classic Heroes gently filled the space.

Four elegant attendants then entered the hall and greeted a smiling Jack. After they had taken their positions alongside him and his Groomsmen, all guests turned to the back of the art deco ballroom in anticipation of Clementine’s entrance.

As violins and violas reached their crescendo, Clementine appeared at the top of the long aisle. She walked with confidence and joy, laughing with her much-loved father while rarely shifting her gaze from Jack. She took to the first flight of stairs and joined her Groom on the landing without a traditional “hand over”.

Flanked by sweeping staircases and surrounded by candles and blooms in hues of red, burgundy, pink and violet, the stunning couple stood hand in hand as parents were honoured and important friendships were acknowledged. They grinned and laughed as I shared stories of their courtship and other pivotal relationship events.

As a learned english literature devotee, and as the daughter of celebrated Australian film and television screenwriters, it came as no surprise that Clementine chose to include words penned by Shakespeare, Margaret Atwood and E.M. Forster on the day she’d marry her Jack.  The pair listened intently as guests delivered readings with gusto and then turned their full attention to each other as they exchanged vows and rings with sincerity.

As we signed the marriage certificates, guests were transported to a dancehall in Dover in 1976, when a recording of Clementine’s Nanny Elsie’s band played. Sadly, Clementine and Elsie never met, so having Nanny Elsie play at her grand-daughter’s wedding was a meaningful inclusion.

After a happy snap with yours truly, the accomplished and sweet-natured couple received an almighty cheer, a shower of colourful confetti and a serenade by Florence + the Machine.

The newlyweds and their wedding party then took to the streets with highly sought-after photographer Tess Follett, before returning to Mural Hall to kick start their reception with Horns of Leroy - the coolest brass band in Melbourne.

Clementine and Jack’s celebration was a perfect union of romance, sentimentality, elegance, joy and humour. The combination of traditional and contemporary elements ensured that their ceremony reflected their values, passions, personalities and of course, their very special love story.

Love Note…

“Sally, we can never thank you enough for our beautiful ceremony, which was everything we dreamt of and so much more, and for all your expert help and advice. 

We valued your experience and input in the whole process - you always had the perfect answer to any questions we had. Initially I was really set on having a ceremony that was very serious, because I thought of giving vows as a serious thing, and I'd been to few weddings where I'd found the whole thing a bit too 'jokey', but I am so glad you were able to show us how our ceremony could also be fun and happy and warm, and funny, whilst also being serious and meaningful at the appropriate times. We wouldn't have been able to achieve this without you, and I'm so glad we did! 

… we remember all your thoughtful touches that meant so much and the warmth that you brought to our day. We can remember throughout the reception, and the next day at the pub, so many people coming up to us to say how wonderful you were! 

We really agonised over just about every wedding decision we had to make, big or small, except for hiring you! As soon as I saw your website, I knew that you were the only celebrant we wanted! You really went and above and beyond with fitting in our wedding rehearsal, planning ceremony seating charts, and I was so amazed when you greeted all our family by name! 

Thank you again, Sally.  … You made our wedding something that was so meaningful to us and we’re so grateful.”

Clementine + Jack

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer: Tess Follett // Videographer: True Story Wedding Films // Venue: Mural Hall // Catering & Event Management: The Big Group // Floral Stylist: Victoria Whitelaw // Clementine’s Dress: Moira Hughes // Clementine’s Shoes: Kate Sylvester // Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Shona Joy // Groomsmens’ Suits: Peter Jackson // Flowergirls’ Dresses: Arabella and Rose // Hair: Valentina Arjona // Make Up: Jasmyn West Beauty // Rings: Larsen Jewellery & Keshett // Jewellery: Alex Monroe // DJ: Dan Hall // Band: Horns of Leroy // Cars: Triple R // Cake: Zephyr & Bloom Cakes

KAZ + MATT - Vodka, Tears, Laughter and Cheers

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Have you ever met a person and decided, within a minute of meeting them, that you REALLY like them? This was exactly the case for me when I met Kaz and Matt last year. That morning, they bounded into my office with a level of energy and excitement that was contagious. Our conversation flowed with ease and we laughed like old friends. They were so darn likeable!

Not surprisingly, planning Kaz and Matt’s marriage ceremony couldn’t have been more enjoyable. They weren’t looking for a solemn or overly sentimental affair, but rather, a celebration that would reflect their happy relationship and easy going personalities and set the scene for a lively night ahead. I knew they’d want to laugh a lot, cry a little and involve themselves throughout, so I set about crafting a ceremony that was mostly lighthearted and humorous, but also meaningful and romantic when it needed to be.

Kaz and Matt were married at Rupert on Rupert, an urban industrial gem, tucked away in the backstreets of Collingwood. The former warehouse encloses a lush indoor garden, quirky vintage furniture, polished concrete floors, vaulted ceilings and loads of natural light. With a lush conservatory that is perfect for intimate ceremonies, a cocktail lounge for pre and post nuptial refreshments and a dining hall to host either a sit down or cocktail reception, it’s a fabulous all-inclusive inner-city wedding venue.

Kaz and Matt’s ceremony began with an emotional processional and a vodka toast in honour of Kaz’s Polish heritage. It continued with the retelling of Kaz and Matt’s meeting on an Airbus A330 (and a lesson regarding the importance of checking that phone numbers on a business cards are accurate) and ended with an almighty roar from supportive family and friends.

And because Kaz and Matt were so easy going and so open to telling me a great deal about themselves, I was able to get to know them on a level that enabled me to throw in a few personal observations and light-hearted quips. Our connection was such that both scripted and unscripted moments landed perfectly. Keep scrolling and you’ll see what I mean.

(If you zoom in on the tray I’m holding, you’ll notice a disparity in serving sizes. Knowing that Matt’s not a fan of Polish vodka neat, I may have tampered with the glasses…) Na zdrowie!⁠⠀

Congratulations on your marriage Kaz and Matt and thank you for the many, many laughs shared. It was wonderful working with you. xx

Love Note…

Sally... you were amazing!!  We couldn’t have asked for a better celebrant.  You made our day!!
Beautifully done, with humour, romance and emotion. We loved the way you put our day together.

The times we met face to face, leading up to the event was appreciated, and the way you deconstructed our story to engage our family and friends in fun banter made the whole wedding experience memorable.

Love your work!

Kaz + Matt

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Venue:  Rupert On Rupert // Photographer: Matt Johnson - The Loved Ones // Kaz’s Dress: Mariana Hardwick // Matt’s Suit: Calibre // Florals: The Arrangement // Hair + Makeup: Kerry Tseros // Musicians:  Lydia Rose Music + Sammy Sax // Cake: Little Frenchie & Co // Kaz’s Wedding Ring: GoldeNet Australia  // Engagement Ring:  Custom made in New York // Stationery: Paperpoint South Melbourne // Transport: Uber Premium 

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EMMA + SIMON - Panama Party

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Emma and Simon were married before the iconic arched windows of The Panama Dining Room in Fitzroy, one of my favourite inner-city venues. Flanked by a super stylish wedding party of ten (including Superbloom By The Style Co Stylist Susie Jenkinson), Emma and Simon stood before their nearest and dearest as I delivered one of my funniest and most interactive ceremonies yet… if I do say so myself!

Taking the crowd on a ride through the retelling of Emma and Simon’s fourteen-year-long relationship story was so enjoyable. From their meeting as teenagers at Colombos Pizza and Emma’s honest assessment of Simon’s potential, to their pineapple Cruiser-infused courtship and Simon’s fondness for red bed linen (#firstfight), we laughed so much.

Their guests presented speeches that had us in stitches, their romantic vows made us sigh and their recessional raised the roof. It was a ceremony that well and truly got the party started!

Unplugged audience interaction right there, folks!

One of my pet peeves is poorly positioned wedding parties! It’s such a shame when attendants are positioned in front of floral installations and gorgeous windows and when signing tables dominate ceremony spaces.

Fortunately, Emma and Simon allowed me to indulge my need for symmetry and unobscured florals and position their attendants in a way that allowed only their suberb 10 foot high floral installation to frame them.

After their loud and lively ceremony, the entertainment baton was passed to Rutherford Entertainment so the stylish newlyweds could duck downstairs for a stroll along Smith Street with photographer extraordinaire Beck Rocchi (check out the gold Gucci’s folks!). 

They returned shortly afterward to drink espresso martinis with their guests (served in lieu of a wedding cake… SUCH a great idea!) and carve up the d-floor to a little old-school RnB.

Congratulations Emma and Simon and thank you so much for inviting me to your loud and laughter-filled Panama party. I absolutely loved it!

Love Note…

Sally, we had nothing but amazing feedback about you and the way the service was conducted…..you really kicked off the wedding in the best way possible and we couldn’t be more grateful!   

You took so many extra steps to support us which you didn’t need to do….we were actually reading the booklet you printed off of our ceremony last night….we will treasure that forever!

Anything we can do to recommend you as the amazing celebrant you are, we will!

Emma + Simon

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer: Beck Rocchi Photography // Venue: Panama Dining Room // Stylist: Superbloom By The Style Co // Emma’s Dress: Christie Nicole Bridal // Simon’s Suit: Oscar Hunt // Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Manning Cartell, KITX by Kit Willow, Carla Zampatti + Rebecca Vallance // Groomsmens’ Suits: Politix // Hair: Joey Scandizzo // Make Up: Monica Gingold // Musicians: Sean Marrachietti (Guitarist) for Rutherford Entertainment // Stationery: Mickey Loves Jacqui // Rings: Ellissi Rings & Jewellery // Cars: Uber

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Wedding Day Regrets

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

If I had to do it all again, I wouldn’t change a single thing…

Yep, Kylie’s late eighties chart topper sprang to mind the moment I sat down to write this blog. While we know the pop princess wasn’t singing about her wedding day (insert sad face here), it’s something I hope you’ll sing from the rafters after yours.

When your big day is done and dusted and you’re sitting on a beach sipping mojitos and margaritas, reliving your celebration with your significant other, I hope you both agree that every single choice you made was spot on.  I’m pleased to say that this tends to be the case with almost every couple I work with.  Perhaps it’s because I attract easy going couples who trust me to do what I do best and who are open to advice. However, on occasion I run into married folk who tell me that if they had their day again, they might change a thing or two.

And so I thought I’d list the six most common wedding day regrets, as shared with me over the past decade..

1. We regret not hiring a videographer

Hands down, this is the regret I hear most. And for the record, it’s the only thing I would have changed about my wedding day. To be fair, when I walked down the aisle in 2006 social media wasn’t anywhere near as big as it is now. Insta didn’t exist, nor did those wonderful two minute highlight reels. Heck, Photoshop was a very expensive optional extra, so the hideous powerlines that feature in some of our portraits sadly remain. But I digress. My point is, back then we thought photography would be enough and relegated videography to the “if the budget allows” category.

However, if I could go back in time I’d make sure our wedding was filmed so I could show my daughters footage of their mummy walking down the aisle giggling, of their daddy’s voice cracking when we exchanged vows, of our friends singing musical theatre songs during the certificate signing, and of our guests carving up the dance floor before an eight piece swing band.

And so, if you can, compromise on your floral centrepieces, ditch the expensive cuff links, earrings and engraved invitations and hire a videographer. In ten years’ time, you won’t care about the styling as much as you will reliving the words, music and emotion during one of the happiest days of your life.

Chloe + Jake’s emotional exchange of vows at Mon Bijou. Captured by Jerome Cole.

Chloe + Jake’s emotional exchange of vows at Mon Bijou. Captured by Jerome Cole.

2. We regret not hiring a professional photographer

Just because you’re a chilled-out, easy going couple who want a simple and low-key ceremony (you’re fab!), it doesn’t mean you should neglect having it captured professionally. Even though you both sound like you have your priorities in check, I bet you’ve splashed a reasonable amount of cash on outfits, hair and make up and I guarantee that you’ll be emotionally invested in your day. Whether you’re hosting a 150 person bash or opting for an intimate elopement, you’ll want great photos. So please, don’t ask a friend who dabbles in photography. Hire a pro!

Chloe + Jake at Mon Bijou ceremony. Captured by Jerome Cole. Wow!

Chloe + Jake at Mon Bijou ceremony. Captured by Jerome Cole. Wow!

When I hear, “We’re thinking of asking our friend to take the photos. He has a pretty good camera…”, I worry. Does your friend (let’s call him Larry) know how to work in poorly-lit venues? Does Larry know how ceremonies play out, and therefore where to quickly position himself during the key moments? Does Larry know not to take those cheesy mood-killing posed photos during the certificate signing, but rather, read the play during the ceremony and know when to photograph you and when to photograph the crowd? And let’s not overlook the possibility that Larry may not want to do it, but is too polite to decline your offer of working for several hours while everyone else is having fun. It’s a big ask. The pressure would be huge for a novice photographer. At least it should be.


3. We regret not having an unplugged ceremony

For the past decade I’ve found that asking guests to put their cameras, phones and other distracting devices away in order to fully participate in the ceremony has been a rapidly growing trend. The motivation is twofold; the experience for all present (the couple and guests alike) and the quality of the photos and footage.

Imagine walking down the aisle and not being able to make eye contact with some of your guests.

Imagine standing at the top of the aisle during the processional and having your view blocked by gran, who’s standing in front of you with a cheap digital camera, attempting to take a sub-standard photo. (I call it “aisle-creep” and it happens all the time!)

Imagine receiving your photos and discovering pictures that would have been amazing but for an arm or a selfie stick in the aisle, or a guest who’s looking at his/her lap, checking how good their iPhone photo looks.

Commit to 30 minutes of true guest interaction and to helping the pros do their best work. Guests can snap away for hours afterwards and hey, you can even pose with them!

All eyes are on Kristina at Stones of the Yarra Valley. Captured by Theodore & Co

All eyes are on Kristina at Stones of the Yarra Valley. Captured by Theodore & Co

No cameras in sight at Kristina + John’s ceremony. Captured by Theodore & Co

No cameras in sight at Kristina + John’s ceremony. Captured by Theodore & Co

4. We regret having our ceremony outside… in Melbourne… in Winter.

This is closely followed by, “We regret having our ceremony outside… in Melbourne… in Summer.”

Doesn’t it sound like a recipe for disaster? OK, I’m being a tad dramatic, but given how reliably interchangeable Melbourne weather is at any time of year, please don’t just “hope for the best” when planning the biggest social event of your lives. If you know the mercury is going to hit 30 degrees, or if the chance of rain rain is high, please hire a marquee. Wishful thinking and half a dozen market umbrellas will not do the trick!

Better still, bite the bullet and move the ceremony indoors! All the hard work you and your celebrant will have dedicated to creating an entertaining and meaningful ceremony can be somewhat wasted when guests are distracted by a constant “Hurry up, I’m melting” or “Hurry up, I’m fuh-reeeeezing” thought. Looking out onto a sea of people with their arms crossed, trying to keep warm, or watching people apologetically walk away from the ceremony space to find shade is disheartening. I may need to cut parts of the ceremony if I feel I’m losing them, which would be a big shame.

Remember, guests will always remember how they felt during your ceremony. No one wants their ceremony to be remembered as “the one that was so cold we almost froze” or “the one where it was so hot, someone fainted”. Aim for a “that’s the best ceremony I’ve ever experienced!” feeling.

When ‘Plan B’ doesn’t cut it. Image by Jason Kaczorowski

When ‘Plan B’ doesn’t cut it. Image by Jason Kaczorowski

5. We regret not thinking enough about our Plan B location.

It’s imperative that you know at the time of booking your ceremony suppliers whether your ceremony location and time could change if you revert to a plan B location.

Whenever I receive an enquiry for a ceremony in a Heritage Listed garden - the Carlton Gardens for example (where marquees are not permitted), i’ll always ask the couple to confirm their alternative ceremony venue and time. If you need to move your 3:00 PM ceremony from a public garden to your indoor reception venue, keep in mind that, no matter how much notice you give, the reception venue manager might not allow you and your guests onsite until they can accomodate you, which is usually from around 5:00 PM.

If you’re marrying outdoors in Melbourne, talk to your celebrant, stylist, musicians and drivers and find out how flexible they can be on your wedding date. Unlike photographers and videographers, who are usually booked for a whole day, they’re usually booked for an agreed time.


6. We regret not having a photo with you.

Look, I do try to jump in during the certificate signing or interrupt your post ceremony snaps, but sometimes the light is fading or the rain is coming and I can sense that the photographer needs to get on with his/her work. If you want a pic with your celebrant (or anyone not staying on after the ceremony), let them and your photographer know that it’s important to you. If it’s important to you, I’ll definitely hover until it happens. Just ask Daniel and Elisha.

Interrupting Daniel + Elisha’s post ceremony portrait session with Briars Atlas at Zonzo Estate.

Interrupting Daniel + Elisha’s post ceremony portrait session with Briars Atlas at Zonzo Estate.

Remember, wedding day regrets can be avoided when you have an experienced and forward thinking celebrant, a realistic attitude and great suppliers on your team.

If there’s anything you would have done differently on your wedding day, please comment below!

Sally Hughes, Melbourne Celebrant

For more wedding tips take a look at TRENDING - Rose Petal Recessionals

KRISTINA + JOHN - Authentically Beautiful

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

When I entered the Stones of the Yarra Valley chapel one warm Saturday afternoon earlier this month, I immediately stopped and smiled. It’s not uncommon for me to do this whenever I open the grand timber doors as it’s such a stunning space and couples who choose to marry at the high-end venue often source the most talented of stylists. But Kristina’s romantic vision, so beautifully realised by Stasia Fox , was breathtaking.

Blooms in soft pinks and creams complemented the soft apricot sandstone walls magnificently, as did the golden flames of the candles, carefully placed on the polished concrete floors. The setting for an elegant event had been well and truly established.

But Kristina and John’s marriage ceremony was so much more than that. It was authentic. It was joyful and it was funny, it was emotional and it was loud. The atmosphere we were able to create in that gorgeous space was palpable. As I stood before 194 guests, welcoming them to the most important part of Kristina and John’s day, introducing Kristina and John’s favourite people and recounting memorable relationship events, I observed so much. Parents cried, grandparents nodded in approval, groomsmen commented freely (which gave rise to some hilarious unscripted banter), and Kristina and John, standing hand in hand, looked happier than I had ever seen them.

So, while the setting was exquisite, while Kristina looked flawless and John so very handsome, it was the genuine sense of celebration within that space that impressed me most. I loved the way we were able to honour family and friends, I loved that guests interacted without reservation and I loved that, for all the laughter and spontaneous applause, we immediately hushed to listen to two much loved people, commit to a shared future.

Congratulations Mr and Mrs C. Thanks for inviting me into your lives to ask a ridiculous number of questions, to retell your love story and have an absolute ball along the way. It was such a pleasure. x

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Love Note…

My husband and I didn't think we had a love story worth telling - that was until we heard Sally tell it.

Sally is all class and a true professional. She is the best at what she does and that's because she truly loves it. From the moment we met Sally, we knew she was who we wanted to stand in front of our most important people in sharing our biggest day of our lives. She made us feel comfortable and at ease during what is truly a crazy time. She is so down to earth, funny and honestly the most organised person we have ever met. She ran us through every single step, heck - she was even the first person to walk me down the aisle (aka the hallway in her home) and the only thing that kept me remotely calm during our ceremony, was knowing that Sally had it all under control.

I think the thing that sets Sally apart is how genuinely she gets to know her couples. We spent many hours with Sally as she learned about who we are as a couple, as individuals and as part of our broader family and friendship groups. Our ceremony was the most important part of our day and Sally absolutely nailed it! Thank you for making our day incredible.

Kristina + John

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Venue: Stones of the Yarra Valley // Photographer: Theodore & Co // Videographer: Annette + Dani Films // Floral Stylist: Stasia Fox // Styling: The Small Things Co // Kristina’s Dress: Elly Sofocli // John’s Suit: Adriano Carbone Master Tailor // Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Elle Zietoune // Groomsmens’ Suits: Formal Red // Hair: Hair By Neveen // Make Up: Isabella Quinn // Musicians: Adelaide Clarke, DJ Claire Elliott & Rob Muir // Cars: Kristina and John’s friend Bob // Rings: Jewellery By Anita & Arman Jewellery // Cake: Sweet By Nature

Ten Years a Celebrant!

On this day ten years ago the Attorney General’s Department saw fit to approve my application to become an Authorised Marriage Celebrant. Ten years ago? Geesh! That time has flown!

Since the 27th of August 2009, I’ve hitched almost 600 couples, I’ve helped others renew their vows, I’ve named babies, I’ve seen marriage equality achieved (hallelujah!) and I’ve seen trends such as mason jars, L.O.V.E letters and sand ceremonies come and go. I’ve seen the rise and rise of Tinder hook-ups, Instagram hashtags (and couple name generator apps), floral arches and ceiling installations, festoon lighting, neon signage, unplugged ceremonies, first looks and non-traditional ceremony venues like bars, distilleries, cellar doors and art galleries. I’ve mentored dozens of celebrants and I’ve won a few awards along the way, but most importantly, I’ve forged trusting relationships with many wonderful couples and close friendships with many industry folk.

I have loved working with happy couples and meeting proud and emotional parents. I have loved making people laugh and watching them cry. I have loved solving problems, dressing up, visiting beautiful venues, and observing talented creatives work their magic. I’ve always appreciated having the best seat in the house.

And so, to anyone who has hired me, recommended me, reviewed me, followed my socials, photographed or filmed me, thank you. To those of you who have spent too much time with me in photo booths, chatting on Messenger threads or carving up dance floors at industry events, sorry (not sorry).

And to my wonderfully supportive husband, thanks for holding down the fort on weekends, for always offering to pack and unpack my equipment from the boot and for having wine, vegetarian pasta and a listening ear at the ready when I return home from ceremonies and insist on reliving every moment.

2029 here I come!

Sal x

ZOE + DAN - Style and Sophistication (...with a side of silliness)

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

What do you get when you combine two gorgeous, accomplished and utterly joyful people, a glamorous bride tribe, dapper and downright hilarious groomsmen, an elegant garden setting, a wise and oh-so-witty zia and some seriously A-grade vendors? One of the most elegant and exuberant ceremonies ever.

The impeccably dressed and contagiously happy Zoe and Dan were married in the Italian Garden at Coombe Yarra Valley. With superb styling by Tori Allen Events and music by the fabulous Logan Entertainment their sentimental, yet laughter-filled ceremony looked and sounded amazing. And it was once again so wonderful to team up with some of my very favourite creatives; photographer Katie Harmsworth and videographers Annette + Dani Films.

Zoe and Dan, thanks so much for the many, many laughs and for sharing these images of your utterly beautiful day.

(Laughing before we officially begin. Love that!)

(Still laughing….)

(Until Aunty Betty’s story brings Zoe to tears.)

(How’s that for perfect dress and wedding party placement? I’m ALWAYS on top of this!)

(Thanks for laughing at every. single. joke. Dan!)

Love Note…

Sally is simply the best! She created the most warm and engaging atmosphere during our ceremony which was the highlight of our day. She thinks of everything and manages all aspects of the ceremony from start to finish masterfully, not to mention what a joy she is to work with in the lead up to the big day. Thank you Sally!

Zoe + Dan

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Venue: Coombe Yarra Valley // Photographer: Katie Harmsworth // Videographer: Annette + Dani Films // Stylist: Tori Allen Events  // Zoe’s Dress: Cappellazzo Couture // Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Bec + Bridge // Suits: Hugo Boss // Hair: House of Hoxton and Kirby Richards // Make Up: Danielle Gardiner // Musicians: Logan Entertainment // Rings: Rod Valenz // Cake: Pastel and Bloom

KATE + STEVEN - Banking on Love

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Celebrant

Great ceremonies are dependent on two factors; an easy-going and good humoured couple who are willing to share great stories, funny and romantic (preferably both) and a celebrant who knows how to retell them in a way that will make a group of people sit up, listen, laugh and sigh. Add to that a stellar supplier line up and a group of guests who have just enjoyed a welcome drink (it’s a game changer!) and you really can’t go wrong.

Kate and Steven’s ceremony ticked both boxes. Two laid back, yet organised people, funny, fun, sentimental and intelligent - they’re a celebrant’s dream really. And importantly, Kate and Steven placed their trust in me to read the crowd on the day and play to them in a way that met their “relaxed, interactive, sentimental and a little cheeky” brief.

And boy, the crowd was on fire! They responded to every little joke, quip (scripted or otherwise) and romantic declaration without restraint. But don’t take my word for it. Let Katie Harmsworth’s fabulous photos of their Stones of the Yarra Valley celebration demonstrate my point.

(Tip - if your budget and logistics allow, always serve a welcome drink. It’s a ceremony game changer!)

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Love Note…

“Sally, it was truly the most amazing day and I think our favourite thing was the ceremony!! You absolutely nailed our brief of being humorous yet sentimental and so many of our friends and family raved about it afterwards. Thank you again for making it so special!!”

Kate + Steven

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Venue: Stones of the Yarra Valley // Photographer: Katie Harmsworth // Videographer: One Heart Studios // Katie’s Dress: Suzanne Harward  // Katie’s Denim Jacket: One Day Bridal // Bridesmaids Dresses: Shona Joy // Suits: Oscar Hunt // Florist: Sugar Bee Flowers // Hair: Tara Steel // Make Up: Merton Muaremi // Ceremony Pianist: Liam Dixon // Reception Musicians: Baker Boys Band // Cars: Supplied by Kate’s dad // Rings: Simon West Fine Jewellery // Neon Sign: Neon Collective

TRENDING - Surprise Weddings

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Celebrant

“We're newly engaged and considering a surprise wedding.  Can you tell me if there's anything we should consider from a planning perspective and if there’s anything we need to know from a legal standpoint?”

Given that I receive enquiries like this several times a year, I feel that the subject of surprise weddings well and truly warrants a blog post.

Surprise weddings are fabulous! There's nothing quite like the roar that erupts immediately after guests learn that they've been unwittingly invited to a wedding. The thrilling cacophony of squeals, applause, laughter and odd cry of “I knew it! I knew it!!”, never fails to make me smile. The atmosphere is always electric.

The Pros and Cons of Surprise Weddings

If you’re considering a celebration that doesn’t conform to the norm, allow me to take you through the pros and cons of surprise weddings.

Pros:

  • The vibe is fantastic. When guests realise that the’ve been invited to a wedding they tend to get really loud and really excited very quickly. They’re usually a few drinks in by that stage, so by the time the ceremony begins they’re ready and willing to involve themselves and actively participate. I love this.

  • Savings (well, in theory anyway!). You can still end up spending large on catering, clothing, styling and so on, however surprise weddings tend to be a little more casual than traditional (i.e. disclosed) bells-and-whistles ones. The opportunity to combine your engagement party with your wedding is a definite cost saver too.

  • Less stress. Given that you won’t be fielding questions from well-intentioned loved ones about your reception menu, choice of band, wedding party and colour palette, there’s no expectation to conform to expectations held by others. You have so much more freedom to do it your way.

Cons:

  • You can’t discuss your plans with anyone other than suppliers. This means no water cooler conversations with work colleagues about finding your dream dress, and no counting down to the big day on your Facebook page!

  • Parents, siblings and besties may be offended if they aren’t privy to the plan. And fair enough. When you think about it, your parents have probably thought about your wedding day for longer than you have. Though they can certainly be involved in your celebration, you may have deprived them of their opportunity to contribute to the planning process, including preparing a heartfelt speech. For that reason you might want to give some serious thought to letting the VIPs know. ONLY the VIPs!

  • You’ll probably miss out on a hen’s/buck’s/huck’s night.

  • Guests may arrive after your ceremony has taken place or they might even miss your wedding altogether. The latter particularly applies to overseas or interstate guests. Often logistical and financial constraints cause long-distance loved ones to skip your so-called engagement party in favour of your future wedding - the wedding they might miss.

So, if you’ve weighed up the pros and cons and feel that a surprise wedding is the way to go, here are a few tips to ensure the surprise element plays out perfectly.

  • Unless you're absolutely certain that your work colleagues won't see your work emails, use a personal email address for correspondence with suppliers. (Nothing ruins the surprise like an email from sally@celebrantsallyhughes.com.au)

  • Don't note the name of your celebrant, photographer or dress designer in your work diary.  Again, colleagues may recognise a wedding supplier, as was the case with a surprise ceremony I was hired to conduct. One of my former brides arrived at the so-called “engagement party” certain that it was a wedding after having seen my name in her boss’ diary.

  • Don't tell anyone! (Have I stressed this point enough?) I know how tough this can be, however trusting people to keep such a big secret is a risk!  If anyone queries whether your engagement party or child’s first birthday bash is likely to double as your wedding, don't feel bad about telling a white lie.  It makes the surprise so much better! Keep in mind that if everyone’s in the same boat, guests are less likely to be offended. Issues usually occur when 20-odd people are in on the secret and the remaining 50 realise they weren’t deemed as trustworthy as the others.

  • Consider how the surprise will be delivered.  Will your celebrant pose as a singer in the Baker Boys Band (yes, I've done that!), or as the venue's emcee (that too) and make the announcement?  Will your fiance and yourself welcome guests and announce the ceremony yourselves? Will guests arrive to a huge “Welcome to our Wedding” sign? You’re only limited by your imagination.

  • Consider whether or not your celebrant should remain well hidden before the big announcement. When I know that my former couples will be attending, I think it’s best that I stay in the back room until show time. Otherwise, they’ll figure it out rather quickly.

  • Give some thought to what happens immediately after the big reveal. Will your ceremony begin immediately or will you need five minutes to change your outfits and put a few chairs in place? Will you announce the names of your official witnesses and wedding crew and invite them to come up and stand with you? You’ve gotta have a plan!

From a Legal Standpoint

For an Australian marriage ceremony to be deemed legally valid, the surprise element can only extend to official witnesses and guests. In other words, the ceremony cannot come as a surprise to the marrying couple. A ‘Notice of Intended Marriage’ (NOIM) must be lodged with a celebrant at least one calendar month prior to the “surprise” marriage ceremony (unless a shortening of time is approved by the relevant authority) and the celebrant must be satisfied that both parties understand the nature of the relationship they intend to enter into and that they are doing so voluntarily and without coercion. The celebrant must also have sufficient time to establish the identity of each party to the marriage.

And for the record… it is legally possible to surprise one of the consenting parties to the marriage with the date, time and location of the marriage, as long as intention to marry has been lodged within the required one calendar month timeframe. For example, a couple could lodge the NOIM with their celebrant but agree to leave all the event planning (date, time, venue and so on) to just one person. The other person would therefore be surprised in that way. It’s not commonly done, but it is legally permissible.

If you’ve any questions or stories to share, feel free to comment below.

Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Looking for a little inspiration? Take a look at Nicole + Saul’s surprise wedding.

MADELEINE + DANIEL - Morning Micro

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Madeleine and Daniel flew from Brunei to Australia to be married in the morning sunshine at Zonzo Estate in Victoria’s Yarra Valley. They spent time among the vines with their photographer Suzie Potter of London Ivy Collective and then married before a small group of family members and friends.  After their micro ceremony (and a quick costume change) the newlyweds made their way indoors to The Stables, a stunning light-filled space, to enjoy a celebratory lunch. 

Madeleine and Daniel’s low-key celebration was a wonderfully unhurried and intimate one. Further proof that micro weddings can be just as beautiful, meaningful and enjoyable as the large-scale variety.

Celebrant: Sally Hughes for Signed and Sealed // Photography: Suzie Potter of London Ivy Collective // Ceremony Venue: Zonzo Estate // Flowers: Sugar Bee Flowers // Madeleine’s Dress: White Runway // Daniel’s Suit: Zara Man

TRENDING - Rose Petal Recessionals

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Rose petals are making a comeback, folks! And it’s thanks to pictures like these that couples are opting to bring back the tradition.

The tradition of showering newlyweds with small objects dates back centuries. It’s widely believed that rice and grains, precursors to petals, were thrown as a way of symbolising rain; a sign of prosperity, fertility and good fortune (i’ll be sure to mention that to couples when downpours are imminent!). Coloured paper confetti then became all the rage until dresses became stained and venue operators became tired of cleaning it up. Petals came next, but like all trends, their popularity declined somewhat. Again, venue operators played a role here because, like paper confetti, coloured petals stain carpets and tiles too. However I have noticed that some venue operators will now allow white or freeze dried petals.

Anyhow, enough of the history lesson. Petals have made a comeback! When thrown well, they look great in photos and they inject a little fun into the recessional. EVERY couple laughs while their friends take aim - and these photos prove my point.

A few tips for rose petal recessionals:

1. Have your Celebrant instruct guests to throw petals above you, not at you. While it is rather funny watching a couple cop a face full of blooms, it won’t be the most pleasurable experience for them. And the photography and footage will suffer.

2. Ditch petal cones. Guests don’t want to balance a cone of petals on their laps during the ceremony. And those in the standing section should be hands-free so they can applaud your extremely witty and hilarious Celebrant and wipe their tears during a sentimental exchange of vows. A bowl or basket of petals is all you’ll need.

3. Distribute petals during the signing of the certificates. No one wants to hold a handful of petals for more than a few minutes. As per point 2, guests should be hands-free during the ceremony, so just ask a friend to walk up and down the aisle to distribute during the signing.

4. If petals aren’t your thing, consider glitter cannons, sparklers (provided fire bans aren’t in place), pom poms, leaves or bubbles.

JESS + SIMON / Jerome Cole Photography / The Prince Deck / Lulu Bird

JESS + SIMON / Jerome Cole Photography / The Prince Deck / Lulu Bird

MEL + ANTON / Corey Wright Photography / Immerse / Sugar Bee Flowers

MEL + ANTON / Corey Wright Photography / Immerse / Sugar Bee Flowers

AMY + PHIL / Gerard Assi Photography / The Riverstone Estate / Edward & I

AMY + PHIL / Gerard Assi Photography / The Riverstone Estate / Edward & I

ZOE + DAN / Katie Harmsworth Photography / Coombe Yarra Valley / Tori Allen Events

ZOE + DAN / Katie Harmsworth Photography / Coombe Yarra Valley / Tori Allen Events

AMANDA + MATT / Lost In Love Photography / Zonzo Estate / Sugar Bee Flowers

AMANDA + MATT / Lost In Love Photography / Zonzo Estate / Sugar Bee Flowers

FIONA + PAUL / Stewart Leishman Photography / Immerse / Debbie O’Neill Flowers

FIONA + PAUL / Stewart Leishman Photography / Immerse / Debbie O’Neill Flowers

TAYLA + TODD / Sigrid Petersen / Coombe Yarra Valley / Sugar Bee Flowers

TAYLA + TODD / Sigrid Petersen / Coombe Yarra Valley / Sugar Bee Flowers

AMI + MATT / Michael Briggs Photography / Zonzo Estate, Yarra Glen / Sugar Bee Flowers

AMI + MATT / Michael Briggs Photography / Zonzo Estate, Yarra Glen / Sugar Bee Flowers

AMELIA + WILL / Blossom Daisy Creative / The George Ballroom / Floretta By Grace

AMELIA + WILL / Blossom Daisy Creative / The George Ballroom / Floretta By Grace

ANNALIECE + ALEKS / Michael Lean Photography / Dayne Robinson

ANNALIECE + ALEKS / Michael Lean Photography / Dayne Robinson

CAROLYNE + MARTY / Robert Hock Photography / Coombe Yarra Valley / Sugar Bee Flowers

CAROLYNE + MARTY / Robert Hock Photography / Coombe Yarra Valley / Sugar Bee Flowers

EMILY + CAM / Warren Photography / Stones of the Yarra Valley / Red Earth Flowers

EMILY + CAM / Warren Photography / Stones of the Yarra Valley / Red Earth Flowers

JEN + JARMON / Shot From The Heart / Lyrebird Falls / Sassafras Flower Design

JEN + JARMON / Shot From The Heart / Lyrebird Falls / Sassafras Flower Design

MELISSA + JED / Aria Photography / Zonzo Estate / Silver Suede Flowers

MELISSA + JED / Aria Photography / Zonzo Estate / Silver Suede Flowers

BETH + JUSTIN / Dijana Risteska Photography / Zonzo Estate / Sugar Bee Flowers

BETH + JUSTIN / Dijana Risteska Photography / Zonzo Estate / Sugar Bee Flowers

LIV + NATHAN / Beck Rocchi Photography / Coombe Yarra Valley / Sugar Bee Flowers

LIV + NATHAN / Beck Rocchi Photography / Coombe Yarra Valley / Sugar Bee Flowers

KATE + STEVE / Katie Harmsworth Photography / Stones of the Yarra Valley / Sugar Bee Flowers

KATE + STEVE / Katie Harmsworth Photography / Stones of the Yarra Valley / Sugar Bee Flowers

ANIKA + ANDY / Fifteen Photography / Yering Station / Sugar Bee Flowers

ANIKA + ANDY / Fifteen Photography / Yering Station / Sugar Bee Flowers

EMILY + HAYDEN / PiXray Photography / Quat Quatta / Victoria Whitelaw Flowers

EMILY + HAYDEN / PiXray Photography / Quat Quatta / Victoria Whitelaw Flowers

CHLOE + ED - Truly Madly Deeply

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

Chloe and Ed were married on the Harbour Room rooftop at the Royal Melbourne Yacht Squadron during one of the most relaxed and interactive ceremonies I’ve ever had the pleasure of presenting. The laughter, the unscripted banter, the spontaneous applause… the sheer willingness of everyone to get involved, made for such a great ceremony.

As the genetically blessed pair stood together that warm and sunny St Kilda afternoon, I spoke of the strong bond they have with their family, of the many close friendships they’ve forged (involving quite a few people as I did - and gee they played along well…) and of the relationship that resulted from a shared cab ride one rainy evening in South Melbourne.

The ceremony concluded with an almighty roar, cocktail hour commenced and Chloe and Ed ventured downstairs with their wedding crew to see their precious Staffies, Opie and Bo, and hang out with their very chilled and very talented photographer, Daniel Milligan.

Photo by guest

Photo by guest

“I’ll be your dream, I’ll be your wish, I’ll be your fantasy.

I’ll be your hope, I’ll be your love, be everything that you need…”

The Savage Garden classic was the song of choice for Chloe’s processional. Several guests and I may have sung along…

Love Note

“Sally was absolutely incredible!!! From the first meeting until the big day Sally took so much stress out of the whole ceremony process for us by guiding us through everything. Her level of professionalism is outstanding and she was a friendly, enthusiastic and fun person to have as part of our important process. Our guests completely raved about her following the ceremony where everyone gave her a round of applause at the mention of her name later on during the reception. Sally was an absolute godsend and we could not be more thankful for having found her.”

Chloe + Ed


Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer (excluding photo 2): Daniel Milligan // Venue: Harbour Room at the Royal Melbourne Yacht Squadron (Managed by Food & Desire) // Ceremony Musicians: James Howlett and Bron, AKA 'Le Bron James’ // Reception DJ: Ian Henton // Florals: Melbourne Event Florals & Flowers In Hand St Kilda // Wedding Dress: Jane Hill // Suits: My Tuxedo tailored by Looksmart Alterations // Bridesmaid Dresses: Nookie // Hair: Rhiannon at Ayana Hair Design // Hairpiece: The Luxe Bride Co // Make up: Rachael Amy // Rings: Parker Diamonds // Cars: Always Classic Cars

CAROLYNE + MARTIN - Say 'I Do' at Coombe

By Sally Hughes, Melbourne Marriage Celebrant

I absolutely love Yarra Valley weddings. I love cueing up a TED Talk and driving along long and windy roads, passing rows upon rows of grapevines, paddocks of cows and hay bales and arriving at beautiful venues. When Carolyne and Martin’s enquiry arrived in my inbox, the old “Oooo, I hope I’m available for this one” thought most definitely entered my mind.

And that’s because Carolyne and Martin were married at Coombe Yarra Valley - one of my favourite Yarra Valley venues. Bordered by a ten metre high cypress hedge, the estate boasts magnificent oak trees, lush green lawns, stunning architecture old and new, delicious food and wine and, importantly, superb service. It’s no wonder this venue, opera singer Dame Nellie Melba’s former residence, has established itself as one of Victoria’s premier wedding venues. It’s a dream venue for couples and Celebrants alike.

Add to this location a couple as funny, kind and easy going as Carolyne and Martin and a fabulous afternoon is assured.

The moment 100-odd guests made their way from the cellar door to the ceremony space - many with a drink in hand (I love the way they do things at Coombe), I knew Carolyne and Martin’s ceremony would be an interactive one. Without doubt. They were laughing, they were loud and they were keen to play along with my pre ceremony warm up. I absolutely love couples who invite people like this to their ceremony.

Carolyne and Martin were married on Melba’s former tennis court under blue skies. Carolyne and her bestie arrived in a black mustang ten minutes prior to our scheduled start, allowing us ample time to talk through their entrances, admire Carolyne’s stunning Maggie Sottero wedding dress and soak in the pre ceremony excitement away from the gaze of guests.

Lark Music provided the sound track to the processional, nailing John Legend’s Stay With You, and four year old Mila almost stole the show, walking some 50 metres on her own (her pre ceremony run-through with her mother and I while dozens of supportive guests cheered her on must have helped). Carolyne’s bestie Alyssa followed, looking gorgeous in maroon. Her bouquet in hues of pink, red and burgundy was one of many stunning Sugar Bee Flowers arrangements on display that day.

But then it was all eyes on Carolyne as she took her brother’s arm and walked toward Martin.

(Side note: Isn’t it lovely to see a distinct absence of cameras and phones in the processional images below?)

And so began a ceremony that included an emotional processional, a light-hearted reteling of an eight year-long relationship story, a few highly romantic moments and fair smattering of guest interaction. OK, a LOT of guest interaction! I couldn’t have asked for a better outcome for this gorgeous pair. It really was a ceremony that had it all.

Love Note

“Sally, thank you for everything that you did for our wedding. You went above and beyond our expectations and made it a seamless journey for both of us! All of our close family and friends have expressed how fabulous, easy-going and kind you were on the day and how fantastic the ceremony itself was! People have said to us multiple times how lovely and kind you are, so thank you from us and everyone else.”

Carolyne + Martin

Celebrant: Sally Hughes // Photographer: Robert Hock // Venue: Coombe Yarra Valley // Videographer: Iconic Pictures // Flowers: Sugar Bee Flowers // Music: Lark Music // Carolyne’s Dress: Maggie Sottero //

Suits: InStitchu